Spouse Won’t Acknowledge A Child Who Believes He’s Bi-sexual
My twelve yr old revealed to me a week ago that he’s certain he is promiscuous. This doesn’t trouble me in the smallest.
Be that as it may, he requested that I converse with his father today around evening time as he believed he should know and would not like to tell his father himself as he’s was uncertain how he would respond and would not like to feel like he had frustrated him.
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It went poorly. He hushed up, didn’t state without question and when he spoke, he said that he didn’t generally have the foggiest idea what to state in light of the fact that to him and how he feels, it is ethically off-base.
Here’s the curve, I inquired as to why it was any extraordinary for our child coming out as Bi when he didn’t respond along these lines when our 16-year-old little girl came out as indiscriminate a year ago.
He expressed “I don’t pay attention to what she says”. I disclosed to him this wasn’t reasonable and that nothing was any extraordinary with our child. He was as yet a similar child. He despite everything likes similar diversions, plays similar games, acts a similar way is as yet a similar fragile living creature and blood. I inquired as to whether he would disdain him in light of his sexuality and he said he didn’t have the foggiest idea.
I don’t have the foggiest idea what to do on the grounds that I realize this is going to cause pressure and strain in the house and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I won’t let him best our son’s(or my daughter’s) certainty and self-esteem down with remarks and burrows about him being promiscuous.
My child inquired as to whether I addressed his father today around evening time and I needed to lie and state that I didn’t get an opportunity on the grounds that my mom had called.
I essentially couldn’t force myself to disclose to him how his father had responded.
I’ve been with my better half 22yrs and have heard him make the odd spur of the moment joke about gays or lesbians however this evening has given me that he is really Homophobic.
I don’t have the foggiest idea of whether I can live with that. Not when it will influence my youngsters. I feel totally lost.